My memory. What they say about your memory during menopause is true - your brain decides to go elsewhere. I struggle more now to recall a name, a detail, or directions. It's almost like having "mommy brain" again only you don't get as much sympathy, you don't have little children crawling on you as excuses for your lack of brain function, just hot flashes and drips of sweat. Not as cute. While watching CBS Sunday Morning with my husband Rob there was a segment on people in the Entertainment industry that had passed in 2013. One of my favorite channels is Turner Classic Movies and on the screen was a photo of Joan Fontaine. When she passed in December TCM honored her by featuring her movies (have you seen "Rebecca"? Wow! If you haven't seen it, you should!) and sharing more about her personal life. I learned that her sister is Olivia de Havilland - ("Melanie" from Gone With The Wind among many other movies). I wanted to